THE INTERIOR BOY

We come into the world clear, it is trekking through life that contaminates us, while more children like we are it is easier return to the road to purity. Let us allow it to leave, let us know it, let us be happy as them, cheerful, spontaneous, curious, sincere, talkative, creative, they don't worry about the time, neither the problems and their minds are open learning quickly.

We live submerged in a sea of problems, memories, material and affective, dreamt but not lived desires, with fear of time that we see as it passes and we are not able to complete those earthly desires, without realizing that the earthly is being transitory, while the spiritual being is eternal. This means that if we are intelligent we should give priority to our interior growth and to pass from the mundane to the divine being.

Children are bothered when we do not allow them to make things at once, they do not understand sentences like "later, Then, Tomorrow" they want it all now. If we were children we would live the present, the now and would not become distressed for a tomorrow that we do not even know if it will exist for us.

The Supreme sends us children not to nag them, hit them, to see them grow and marry. We also have them to play, love and evolve together with them.

Many say that it is a sacrifice to raise children. But, then when the children become adolescent, they do not speak and ignore us, we observe that they go away and it is when we appreciate the error of not having enjoyed the period of innocence, questioning. Rollick and laughs that they offered us and we responded "now not because I am tired, busy, I am watching TV, reading the book,etc."

Being children we will love our parents with that immense love that we had for them in our childhood, this way easier to forgive them for everything that hurt us and that we do not possibly remember.

How to be a child?

It depends what child want you to be: good, bad, submissive, spoiled, mischievous, playful, affectionate, spoilt, cheerful, creative, studious. Do identify it in detail, if today you were a child. What would you like to be or do?.

Look for your child:

• Playing with children, with your children, nephews, neighbors.
• Buy yourself, for example, the toy that you could never have, a bicycle, when you ride it you will feel very good.
• If you did not have a childhood, try to practice some sport. Go to the movies to see Disney movies that have the virtue of delighting adults as children.
• If you need affection, love or that they pamper you, begins yourself by giving it.
• Look for a hobby.
• If you were a resentful boy because they mistreated you, the spoilt one was your older brother or they ignored you, you should forgive the error of your parents, them a gift, invite then to the movies to see a child´s movie, eat with them, visit them with more frequency and with the time you will see when the resentment disappears.

Note:

Giving too many responsibilities to your children with the wish for them to produce and defend them selves alone. Give them free time so that they are children and play with their friends. Don't transform them into men, without childhood.

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